Thursday’s Thoughts – Asking AI to clarify a conversation killer

I love a good debate as much as the next guy… well, maybe more when I’m feeling the inner devil’s advocate taking control. Regardless, there have been many discussion where I’ve simply I’ve been perplexed by why anyone would bother asking my opinion if they really only want to hear their own. I’d like to believe I’m not so egocentric that I don’t recognize that people often engage in conversation to confirm their own thoughts… to get reassurances they aren’t crazy, but I just don’t feel right when I don’t express my opinion. Furthermore, (ego talking now) when I do share an honest opinion, I preface it with a clear disclaimer that it is MY perspective from MY experience. The result is often the same… uncomfortable disagreement. So, I decided to use an AI to see what it might say about such conversations.

Prompt: Comment on the following statement: “If you don’t want to hear what potentially will be a different opinion, don’t ask me for mine.”

AI answer:

The statement suggests a straightforward and assertive stance regarding sharing opinions. It appears to communicate the following message:

“If you are not prepared to handle or consider a potentially different opinion, then it’s better not to seek or ask for my opinion.”

There are a few points to consider in analyzing this statement:

1. Respect for Differing Opinions: The speaker seems to value open and honest communication, acknowledging that opinions may vary and that differing perspectives should be respected.
2. Boundaries: The statement sets a boundary by indicating that the speaker will express their opinion, even if it differs from the other person’s viewpoint. This could be seen as a form of assertiveness in maintaining their right to express themselves.
3. Willingness to Engage in Discussions: While the statement acknowledges that there might be differing opinions, it also implies a willingness to engage in discussions and share those opinions, regardless of whether they align with the other person’s views.
4. Potential Bluntness: Depending on the tone and context in which it is delivered, the statement might come across as blunt or confrontational, which could affect the way the other person perceives the speaker’s response.

Overall, the statement emphasizes the importance of open dialogue and owning one’s opinions. However, it’s essential to be mindful of how the message is conveyed to maintain respectful and constructive conversations, especially when dealing with sensitive topics or individuals with different perspectives. Openness to hearing different opinions can lead to productive discussions and a better understanding of various viewpoints.

My conclusion (which remains open to change): 1 – Try your best to know your audience first. 2 – Seek to understand them, before being understood. 3 – If you feel your opinion will be unwelcome and/or you don’t want to give it, then say some version of “I don’t know”.

What do you think (AND YES I DO WANT YOUR OPINIONS!!!)?